Do You Think You Deserve To Be Happy?

You know, I think a lot of people don’t think
they deserve to happy. They probably wouldn’t
admit it, but deep down, I’m sure that’s what
they must think.

How else would you explain the fact that so many people end
up being stuck in dead end jobs that they hate?
Why would they put themselves through that day after
day after day, if they truly thought that they
deserved better?

Unless people have a healthy self-esteem and a
sense of their own uniqueness, they aren’t going
to have the ability to do what needs to be done
to get happy!

Maybe there is a little voice inside of them, way
down in their subconscious that is telling them
lies. Telling them they don't deserve any better.

Maybe they have been comparing themselves
unfavourably to other people.

The thing that I have found that goes and awfully
long way towards getting your self-talk sorted into
a more positive dialogue, is finding out who you
really are.

When you realise that you are truly unique, that
you weren’t made exactly the same as anyone else
and begin to explore this reality, it is such an
incredibly freeing experience.

I spent years thinking I wasn’t measuring up,
because I was trying to measure myself up to
someone who was made entirely different to me.

I hope you aren’t doing the same thing.

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